Do You Think You Will Never Meet Anyone Else?
By Susan Russo “A mind troubled by doubt cannot focus on the course to victory.” -Arthur Golden How many times have you said, “I’ll never meet anyone that I love like him/her? She’s/he’s my soul mate; It’s too hard to meetgood people; I hate the bar scene; I’ll never meet anyone unless theyknock on my door.” And the list goes on. Because your heart is so wrapped up in whatever their name is; youcan’t see that there’s a future out there waiting for you. You are sofocused on looking through your rear-view mirror that you can’tsee where you are going. Sure you miss them. They were the latest and the greatest. But,think back to the time in your life that you thought you wouldnever get over the last guy/girl and lo and behold; you met someone new. You’re right about one thing; you will never meet anyone as longas you hold onto the belief that you won’t. We attract what we think about all day. If the only thing on yourmind is how bad you feel, how you loved what you had and howyou will never meet anyone else. Then guess what? You’re right! On the other hand, you need to begin to realize that even thoughyour relationship is over; doesn’t mean that your life is over. Thisparticular chapter in your life may be gone, but now you can begin to tell a story with new characters, a new beginning and with someonewho actually wants to be in the story. Sometimes things just don’t work out the way we’d like. As much aswe don’t want to believe it or accept it; until you start to processthis reality; you will continue to live in the past. Thinking about whatwas and what could’ve been is a waste of time. Seriously,what good does it do you? What’s the point? Close the door on that chapter in your life and you give yourselfthe opportunity to meet someone new. The more open you are toit, the more likely you will attract it into your life. So, when you aresitting there thinking that you will never meet anyone else, just remember, we create our experiences by what we continually tellourselves. Change your thinking and you’ll change your life! Thinking that you will never meet anyone again is exactly what youwill experience. The likelihood of you living on this earth for the restof your life and believing that you will never meet anyone again is;well, ludicrous. You just never know, when you least expect it; there they are. But, you have to be open to it and in order to do that; you have tochange your perspective and change what you tell yourself about the situation. Face the facts. Begin to put it behind you and you will be closer to gettingwhat you want from life. Wanting something that isn’t working or hurts youjust doesn’t make sense. Who really wants to hold onto pain? Choose to believe in your future again and simply know that you havethe power to control what you tell yourself about anything. You canactually change your life by choosing what you think about. Start to focus on what you want; not on what you don’t want; and before you know it; you’ll meet someone new. Read more about it at: http://www.whystay.com Susan Russo is the President of Pinnacle Thought Inc. Publisher for books and resources which provide inspiration, self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal success and fulfillment. She is editor of “You’ve Got Power” ezine and author of “There Is Life After What’s-His-Name” and “The 7 Keys to Unlock The Power Within You” found at http://susanrusso.comCopyright 2006 Pinnacle Thought Inc. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Susan_Russo http://EzineArticles.com/?Do-You-Think-You-Will-Never-Meet-Anyone-Else?&id=308240 online credit reports cheap car dealers who except bad credit in my area 34465 how long a bankruptcy stays on credit report no credit or bad credit drive now in chilliwack bc
